If you are searching for an engagement ring, you need to consider:

• Her style - you can take our engagement ring style finder test to see which ring matches her taste, living habits, and personality!
• Her hands - certain diamond shapes and engagement ring setting styles might flatter her hands better than others!

In this article, for each type of hand and fingers, we will tell you:

• Which diamond shape is best
• Which diamond shape to avoid
• How big should your diamond be!
• Which type of setting to go for

• Round, oval, and pear-cut diamonds are best

Any diamond with an elongated shape is ideal to make the hand appear longer and slender, while soft edges compliment small hands nicely.

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• Stay away from square-shaped diamonds

Princess cut diamonds or radiant diamonds in a square shape (ratio between 1.00 and 1.05) tend to make small hands appear even smaller than they are.

• Small diamonds are fine!

The good news is that “small” carat weight diamonds will look good on smaller hands. A 0.50 ct diamond should look “big enough”.

• Thin, delicate settings are best

Thin, delicate engagement rings complement small hands. Settings that are too wide or too busy can look weird on small hands.

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• Round, oval, radiant cut, or emerald cut diamonds are best

Any diamond with an elongated shape is ideal to make the hand appear longer and slender, while sharp corners tend to complement nicely wide fingers.

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• Stay away from pear cut diamonds

Pear cut diamonds are too “soft” and slender at the tip, making the fingers look almost “naked” and wider than they are.

• Try to go for bigger and wider diamonds

Having wide fingers means you can pull off bigger rings. Though this might sound scary - you might have to go for a bigger diamond (i.e. a more expensive one!), remember that radiant or emerald cut diamonds are cheaper than rounds.

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• Three-stone rings flatter wide fingers

Any engagement ring with an oval, radiant, or emerald-cut diamond will look great! If you prefer to go for a round, go with three stone rings! They are ideal as they will cover the entire width of the finger, which will make fingers appear more slender than they are.

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• Any diamond shape looks great

Those with long, thin fingers are lucky. Any stone will look great.

• Try to go for bigger diamonds

Short and skinny hands do not need big diamonds. But long hands do as larger diamonds will be more proportional to the hand.

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• Bold settings look great

Long fingers can benefit from statement ring settings or split shanks which will not overpower the hand.

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• Round, oval, and pear-cut diamonds are best

Square hands need to be softened. Any elongated shape with soft corners will obtain such a result.

MORE: View engagement rings with a round diamond, oval diamond, pear cut diamond

• Stay away from square-shaped diamonds

Princess cut diamonds or radiant diamonds in a square shape (ratio between 1.00 and 1.05) are not recommended as they tend to emphasize the hand and fingers´ squareness.

• The diamond size does not really matter

Any carat weight will do. Just focus on finding the right shape and the right setting!

• Feminine settings look best

Square fingers can be softened by engagement rings with a feminine touch.

• Which diamond shape looks the smallest and the biggest
• Which diamond shape has the most sparkle